Before a few days ago, the feminist movement an artifact of the distant past that didn't really impact my life very much at all . Sure, I’d heard about the women who struggled for women’s suffrage, but as someone who’s still too young to vote, that fact didn’t really leave an impact on me. To be honest, I had genuinely thought that without feminists, I would still have all the rights I have today. I mean, isn’t it common sense that women should be able to vote? Wouldn’t people have eventually come to the rational conclusion themselves? I was completely ignorant about how unequivocally crucial feminist struggles had been to everything about how I live today.
In a class discussion that blossomed out of themes in the novel Jane Eyre , it was brought to light what my classmates and teachers attitudes about feminism actually were. Let me preface this by saying that it was a rare experience for me; feminism isn’t exactly the trendiest, most current issue right now, and I’ve never really discussed it in depth before.
It soon became clear that a lot of people had differing attitudes about the topic of feminism. Some called out the feminist hypocrites who demanded equal rights for women while at the same time expecting preferential treatment by men. Others pointed out how much feminists had actually accomplished, and how little thought people give those accomplishments today. All of this information was interesting to me, but it still failed to leave a lasting impact.
Finally, my English teacher chimed in. He revealed to us his first hand experiences with feminist ideals, like how he had to watch his own mother struggle to even be allowed to work and do something interesting with her life. Afterwards, he declared himself proud to be a feminist. It wasn’t a viewpoint I’m normally exposed to; not a lot of the adults around me have a lot to say about feminism. Actually, perhaps it’s because I’ve never asked? Either way, this was something that reached me. If my English teacher, who isn’t even a woman, could feel so passionately about this cause, where was my appreciation for these revolutionary feminists?
By then end of class, I had developed a genuine appreciation for feminism, but would not go so far as to call myself a “feminist”. The actual catalyst for my complete change of heart came in the form of my track coach, Karyn Weber.
Apparently the topic of my day was feminism, as it just happened to be brought up at track practice, and Weber had a lot to say. Her thoughts on the subject stemmed mostly from the frustration she had over female student’s complaints about running in gym. Running laps to her was a blessing, not a punishment. She told us all about how not too long ago; girls weren't even allowed to PARTICIPATE in gym. She herself had struggled to be allowed to play all the sports and run all the marathons that literally define her today.
This struck me; hard.
Sure, I’d known about how feminists before me had struggled for suffrage, but I’d never heard about the ones who had struggled for gym class. As an athlete, I cannot even imagine the possibility of not being allowed to play sports. PLaying sports has become a crucial part of my personality, and without realizing it, I’ve taken the opportunity to do so completely for granted.
It’s official; I’m a feminist now. No, not the kind to go out and protest in the streets, but at least one that understands and appreciates all the struggles of women before me that now allow me the completely, unquestionable freedom to do things like go to university, play sports, and vote. Never again will I take for granted, or underestimate the efforts of the revolutionary men and women who fought so hard for my rights today.
Hi Katy!
ReplyDeleteYou’re opinions always seem to strike me as very honest and well thought through and this blog post is no different. You’re right when you say that equal rights for women should simply be common sense! I feel very blessed to live in a part of the world where it is common sense (to most, let’s not forget the places in the world where women are not so lucky). This sounds crazy, but there have been times where I’ve romanticized feminist movements in the late 19th, early 20th centuries, wished I could’ve been part of something so blatantly worth it. In Great Britain, suffragettes would stamp the phrase ‘VOTES FOR WOMEN’ on pennies on top of the face of King Edward XII, because they knew the coins were too low value to replace. Isn’t that just a simply beautiful way of alerting the masses? But now the fight for true gender equality is far more complex. I suppose it’s because the things that are ‘common sense’ have been covered. And what’s left isn’t such an obvious problem: equal pay in the work place, equal intellectual respect, an universal understanding that women can be powerful without being called bitches. All of that is far too long to stamp on a coin and is invisible to many women who don’t care to be in intellectual or work environments.
Two of my friends were making a list of attractive and unattractive traits for a woman to have for their health class. Number 3 on the list of negative traits was ‘feminist’. Immediately I tried to explain to them their mistake: feminists are not just the bra-burners (and they never were!). If you ask me, this should be the first mission for 21st century feminists, BUST THE STEREOTYPE. Make the movement as apparent to the masses, as if it were a coin sitting in the palm of the common hand.
-Julia
Katy,
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree more with what you had to say. I don't consider myself a feminist, because quite honestly, I like the idea of a knight in shining armor. I also believe that men are in some instances physically superior to women when it comes to brute strength. However, the idea of men being though of as more capable or clever when it comes to intelligence and sophistication simply appalls me. I simply don't believe this and the fact the the two people with the highest IQ in the world happen to be women seems to support my belief.
When I think of the feminist, I too think of an activist going out and protesting for women's suffrage, and quite honestly, that has little to no appeal to me. But the appreciation for the women that brought to us the opportunity to have a gym class and be able to exercise freely has, I guess, been present in the back of my mind. And knowing Coach Weber and having to imagine her not being able to run the way she does today highlights to me the importance of the feminist movements in every day life.